Why Everything You Think About Teen Moms Is Wrong: Lessons from a Powerful New Novel

Have you ever judged a teen mom without really knowing their story? If you answered yes, you’re not alone—and Leila Mottley’s recent novel, The Girls Who Grew Big, might just make you rethink everything. Released just this month, this powerful book follows three young women in a small Florida town navigating pregnancy and motherhood. It’s more than just a story; it’s a raw, authentic look at resilience, community, and the complexities of young parenthood.

This novel grabbed my attention not only because of its emotional depth but also because it shines a much-needed light on a group often misunderstood and unfairly stigmatized. Mottley, who also works as a doula, brings a unique perspective, blending firsthand experience with sharp storytelling to break down the common misconceptions teen moms face.

The Misconceptions That We Need to Leave Behind

It’s easy to have stereotypes stuck in our heads: teen moms are irresponsible, doomed to struggle, or somehow