Why Selling Your Home Might Be the Biggest Regret on Your Fertility Journey

I never thought selling my condo could ripple through so many parts of my life—especially my fertility journey.

Recently, I stumbled upon an eye-opening piece about a woman named Andrea Javor, who sold her Chicago condo after losing her job. Fast forward five years, and that condo is worth $193,000 more — a staggering amount of money she missed out on. Andrea's story (you can read the full article here) got me thinking about how big financial decisions intertwine with personal dreams, like starting a family.

Selling a home in tough times is something many people face—especially when bills pile up or income disappears. But what does this mean if you’re also navigating fertility struggles or trying to conceive naturally? For many, home is a sanctuary. It’s where routines build comfort, where emotional wellness is nurtured, where hopeful parents begin their family stories.

Why does home stability matter so much in your fertility journey?

  1. Stress and Emotional Wellness: Moving or renting can spike stress levels. And we all know stress isn’t exactly kind to fertility. When your environment feels uncertain, your body reacts.

  2. Privacy and Comfort: Trying to conceive, especially at home, often means intimate moments and sensitive procedures like at-home insemination. Having a space where you feel totally safe is priceless.

  3. Routine and Consistency: Fertility often requires monitoring ovulation, timing inseminations, and maintaining healthy habits, which flourish best in a stable, familiar environment.

Andrea’s story made me realize many of us might overlook how our living situations impact these factors. But guess what? You don’t have to sacrifice your aspirations just because life threw a curveball.

This is where options like MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits come into play. Their reusable, discreet kits are designed to empower people trying to conceive from the comfort of their own space—no pricey clinics, no awkward waiting rooms. Whether you’re dealing with sensitive conditions or specific sperm needs, their different kits (like CryoBaby, Impregnator, and BabyMaker) cater to unique situations, making a home-based fertility journey more accessible and hopeful.

You might wonder, “But what if my living situation isn’t perfect right now?” That’s okay! Building a fertility-friendly atmosphere doesn’t require owning a home—it’s about crafting a space where you feel supported and empowered. From soothing candles to fertility-focused nutrition, every little action counts.

Here are some tips to create that sanctuary regardless of your housing situation:

  • Designate a fertility nook: A small corner with your ovulation tests, journals, or fertility supplements can shift your mindset.
  • Practice mindfulness: Use meditation or breathing exercises to reduce stress even in rented or shared spaces.
  • Maintain discretion: If privacy is a concern, MakeAMom’s discreet packaging ensures your insemination journey stays personal.
  • Connect with communities: Online forums or support groups can bridge gaps when home life feels turbulent.

Andrea’s regret about selling her condo is a powerful reminder—major financial decisions can impact more than just your wallet. They affect how we feel, how we plan, and how we pursue dreams like parenthood.

If you’re facing decisions about housing or fertility, remember: every journey is unique. You can create empowering, hopeful steps wherever you are.

So, what’s your take? Have you ever felt a life choice ripple through your fertility story? Or discovered unexpected ways to nurture your journey at home? Drop your thoughts below – let’s talk about the spaces that hold our dreams.

And if you want to explore how innovative solutions like MakeAMom’s kits can support your path to parenthood quietly and affordably, check out their resources. Because the right tools and a little home comfort can make all the difference.

After all, sometimes the best kind of security is the one you build within your heart — and your home.


References: - Javor, A. "I sold my Chicago condo after losing my job to save money, and I regret it. It's now valued at $193,000 more than I paid." Business Insider, 2025. Read more

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