Ever felt like your life was a bit ‘messy’ but strangely beautiful? That’s exactly the vibe Netflix was going for with its new ‘Messy Girl Summer’ category, aiming to celebrate the wonderfully imperfect sides of women’s stories. But as one insightful article pointed out, the list missed some iconic titles that truly embody that beautifully chaotic spirit. Read the original CNET commentary here.

This got me thinking: What does ‘messy’ really mean in the context of life’s biggest journeys — like fertility and starting a family? Spoiler alert: ‘Messy’ might just be the secret ingredient to resilience, hope, and success.

The Beauty in the Mess

Let’s be honest — the path to parenthood is anything but neat and tidy. Emotions swirl, plans shift, and unexpected challenges pop up. It’s messy, emotionally intense, and often unpredictable. Yet, within that chaos lies incredible strength.

Netflix’s attempt to spotlight ‘messy’ stories reminds us that perfection isn’t the goal. Real life, with all its ups and downs, is where the magic happens. And when it comes to fertility, embracing the mess can be empowering rather than defeating.

Why The Messy Girl Summer Concept Resonates With Fertility Journeys

  • Imperfection is Powerful: Fertility struggles don’t fit a perfect timeline or script. They require flexibility, patience, and self-love.
  • Community Over Comparisons: Just like the Netflix category aims to showcase diverse messy stories, fertility is about connection and shared experiences — not competition.
  • Finding Joy Amidst the Chaos: Celebrating small victories (like a successful insemination at home!) fuels motivation.

Here’s Where MakeAMom Steps In

If you’re navigating your own “messy” fertility journey, you might wonder: How can I take control and find hope in the unpredictable? This is where at-home insemination kits from MakeAMom become game-changers.

Designed with real-life complexities in mind, MakeAMom’s reusable kits cater to a variety of needs: - CryoBaby for low-volume or frozen sperm - Impregnator for low motility sperm - BabyMaker for those with sensitivities or conditions like vaginismus

These kits are discreet, cost-effective, and come with a powerful average success rate of 67%. That means they’re not just another option — they could be your option to take charge in a way that fits your unique, ‘messy’ life.

Embracing Your Story: From “Messy” to Miraculous

Imagine rewinding the narrative around fertility struggles. Instead of seeing the mess as a setback, what if it’s the very thing that powers your story?

  • You’re not alone: Every messy moment connects you with a community of fighters and dreamers.
  • You’re resourceful: Choosing tools like MakeAMom’s kits means you’re finding innovative solutions tailored to your needs.
  • You’re resilient: Each challenge faced is a testament to your courage.

What to Take Away?

Netflix’s ‘Messy Girl Summer’ might have missed some classic titles, but it opened a bigger conversation about embracing imperfection — especially when it comes to life’s biggest dreams.

Whether you’re binge-watching shows that celebrate the imperfect or sitting with the complexities of fertility, remember this: Your journey doesn’t have to look perfect to be powerful.

If you’re curious about taking a proactive step in your path to parenthood, exploring MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits might just be the empowering move you need. After all, sometimes the messiest summers create the most unforgettable stories.

What’s your ‘messy’ story? Share it with us below — let’s celebrate the beauty in imperfection together and lift each other up!


Inspired by the thoughtful critique of Netflix’s new category, this post connects the dots between cultural moments and personal journeys toward parenthood.