Think you know teen moms? Think again. It’s time to toss out those tired stereotypes and dive into a story that flips the script on what society expects from young mothers.
Leila Mottley, who many of you might already know as an extraordinary young novelist and doula, just dropped her latest book, The Girls Who Grew Big. This compelling novel follows three young women navigating pregnancy and motherhood in a small Florida town—not with the usual clichés, but with raw honesty and heart. (If you want to check out the original NPR piece that introduced this gem, here it is: A young novelist takes on misconceptions about teen moms).
What's so different about Mottley's story?
For starters, Mottley doesn’t just tell any teen mom story. She weaves in the nuance of their experiences—the challenges, the joys, the grit, and the love. Imagine the usual headlines about teen pregnancy—often negative, judgmental, and dismissive—now replaced by pages filled with empathy and depth.
As a doula as well as an author, Mottley brings authenticity and compassion, showing readers that young mothers aren’t a monolith. They have dreams, fears, and strengths just like anyone else.
Why does this matter to families trying to conceive or grow?
Great question! Here’s the twist: stories like these encourage us to rethink what family means and remind us that parenthood doesn't come in a neat little box. Whether you’re embarking on your journey with traditional methods, exploring assisted reproduction, or considering at-home insemination like the kits from MakeAMom, the heart of parenthood remains the same—love, resilience, and hope.
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Let’s talk misconceptions—are teen moms really so different from other parents?
The quick answer: Not really. But society loves to paint them with broad brushes. Here are some myths Mottley's novel helps us challenge:
Myth #1: Teen moms are doomed to struggle. Reality: Many young mothers overcome incredible odds and create thriving lives for themselves and their children.
Myth #2: Teen motherhood is always a choice born from irresponsibility. Reality: Life throws curveballs; circumstances vary widely, and support systems often make a huge difference.
Myth #3: Young moms don’t have dreams beyond their child. Reality: These women often hold fiercely to their ambitions while nurturing their families.
What can we learn from these stories?
Empathy > Judgment: Understanding the full picture enriches our communities and support networks.
Diverse family journeys are valid: Whether through at-home insemination, adoption, IVF, or young motherhood, every path deserves respect.
Stories shape culture: When we consume narratives like The Girls Who Grew Big, we start to shift perceptions, which can influence everything from policy to personal attitudes.
Final Thoughts
If you're walking the sometimes winding road to parenthood, take a moment to recognize the power of stories—those told and those yet to be told. Leila Mottley's novel invites us to question assumptions, embrace complexity, and celebrate the beautiful messiness of family-making.
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So, what did you think? Have you encountered misconceptions about parenthood that just didn’t sit right? Share your experience below and let’s keep the conversation going. Because every story matters—and sometimes, the best ones are the ones that surprise us the most.
Inspired by NPR’s feature on Leila Mottley’s novel: https://www.npr.org/2025/07/09/nx-s1-5461066/leila-mottley-the-girls-who-grew-big-nightcrawling