Ever thought you really understood what it’s like to be a teen mom? If you’re like most people, the answer might be no — or at least, not fully. I recently dove into NPR’s fascinating interview with young novelist Leila Mottley about her latest book, The Girls Who Grew Big, and it turned my assumptions upside down.
Mottley’s novel follows three young women navigating pregnancy and motherhood in a small Florida town. But it’s more than just a story — it’s an intimate extension of her work as a doula, giving voice to experiences often misunderstood or outright ignored.
So, why does this matter to us right now? Because these stories challenge the stereotypes that still cling to teen moms — stereotypes that can isolate, shame, and overlook the strength and resilience these young women show every day.
What Makes Mottley’s Story Different?
Instead of focusing on judgment or sensationalism, The Girls Who Grew Big reveals the nuanced challenges and triumphs that teen moms face, from managing healthcare access to finding emotional support. It’s gritty, real, and honest — stripping away the clichés.
And the timing couldn’t be better. In 2025, conversations about family-building are more open and diverse than ever. We’re exploring new ways to become parents — from IVF and adoption to at-home insemination kits that empower individuals and couples outside traditional clinics.
The Real Talk on Teen Motherhood
Let’s be clear: becoming a parent as a teen is tough. The world often reacts with criticism or pity rather than understanding. But Mottley’s novel encourages us to pause and listen to the actual experiences behind the headlines. These young women are not defined by their age but by their courage to grow and love despite hardship.
And for those of us on different paths to parenthood, like using products from companies such as MakeAMom, this is a powerful reminder that every family story is unique. MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits offer privacy, affordability, and the chance to create your family in the comfort of home. It’s about choice, agency, and rewriting what parenthood looks like in 2025.
Why Stories Like These Matter More Than Ever
When the world hears genuine, empathetic stories about teen mothers, it helps break down stigma. It opens doors to better support systems, community connections, and inclusive healthcare options.
- Awareness: Understanding the realities teen moms face
- Support: Encouraging resources tailored to young parents
- Respect: Challenging harmful stereotypes that limit empathy
Each story brings us closer to a culture where every person’s journey toward parenthood is respected and valued — whether that journey happens at 16, 30, or beyond.
A Personal Reflection
Reading about young motherhood through Mottley’s eyes made me rethink so much about assumptions I didn’t even realize I held. It’s a wake-up call to approach all parenthood stories with compassion and openness.
And if you or someone you love is exploring alternative ways to start or expand their family, know that there are tools and communities ready to support you. Whether it’s through innovative options like MakeAMom’s reusable insemination kits designed for sensitivity or low motility sperm, or just by sharing stories like these, the future of parenthood is diverse and hopeful.
Before You Go...
Curious to dig deeper? Check out the full NPR interview with Leila Mottley here — it’s an insightful listen that will stay with you long after. And if you’re on your own journey to parenthood, explore how accessible and private options like those from MakeAMom could make your dream a reality.
Let’s keep the conversation going: What surprised you most about teen motherhood or alternative family-building methods? Share your thoughts below — together, we can make parenthood more understood and inclusive for everyone.