What North Korea’s Leader Crying Over a Soldier’s Coffin Teaches Us About Grief and Fertility Journeys
Have you ever witnessed a raw moment of grief that just stops you in your tracks?
Recently, a surprising video surfaced showing North Korea's leader Kim Jong Un visibly emotional and crying over the coffin of a soldier. This deeply human moment caught many off guard, especially considering the political image often portrayed. It serves as a powerful reminder that grief is universal—whether you’re mourning a loved one lost to war or the invisible losses we endure during fertility struggles.
You can watch the original video here: WATCH: North Korea's Kim Jong Un seen crying over soldier's coffin.
Why does this matter for those of us on a fertility journey?
If you’ve ever faced the heartbreak of failed insemination attempts, miscarriage, or years of trying to conceive, you know the profound emotional weight it carries. Unlike many other forms of grief, the loss felt in fertility journeys is often silent, misunderstood, and surrounded by societal pressure to “just keep trying.”
Seeing someone in a position so far removed from our own — a world leader — show such raw vulnerability reminds us that grief doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t matter who you are, where you come from, or what your situation is: grief is human, it’s real, and it deserves space.
The emotional rollercoaster of fertility struggles
Anyone who has been on this path knows it’s not just physical — it’s deeply emotional. From the anticipation of ovulation days to the nerve-wracking two-week wait to pregnancy tests, every step brings hope and fear intertwined.
But what happens when the test comes back negative? Or when an insemination attempt doesn’t work? Or when medical visits yield no clear answers? The grief can feel isolating, but it’s important to recognize this emotional part of the journey.
Here’s why acknowledging grief matters:
- It validates your feelings — no matter how small or large the loss feels.
- It helps you process your emotions rather than burying them.
- It connects you to a community of others who understand your experience.
Finding gentle paths forward: At-home insemination and emotional support
In today’s world, many are exploring alternatives that allow for privacy and control, like at-home insemination kits. These kits, such as those offered by MakeAMom, provide a discreet, cost-effective, and empowering way to try for pregnancy in the comfort of your own space.
What’s so comforting about options like MakeAMom’s reusable kits (CryoBaby, Impregnator, BabyMaker) is that they acknowledge the real challenges faced by individuals and couples. The kits address specific needs like low sperm motility or sensitivities, giving you tailored tools to move forward.
Even better? They come discreetly packaged, respecting your privacy during what can be an intensely personal experience.
But what about the emotional side?
Alongside physical tools, emotional support is crucial. Here are some ways to nurture your mental health during tough times:
- Express your grief: Whether through journaling, talking with a trusted friend, or therapy — don’t bottle it up.
- Connect with communities: Support groups, online forums, or specialized resources can remind you that you’re not alone.
- Practice self-compassion: Fertility struggles are hard. Allow yourself to feel sad without judgment.
- Set boundaries: Decide what conversations and interactions feel safe and supportive for you.
Why sharing stories helps
When we see public figures show vulnerability, it opens the door for us to do the same in our own lives. Sharing your story, or simply acknowledging your feelings, can be freeing. It can lead to deeper connections and less stigma around fertility grief.
At FamilyFoundry, we celebrate these moments of honesty and humanity. Because behind every kit used, every test taken, and every doctor’s appointment attended, there’s a person navigating one of life’s toughest journeys.
Final thoughts: Embrace your grief as part of your story
Whether it’s a leader in a far-off country or a friend down the street, tears remind us we’re alive, feeling, and human. Your fertility journey will have ups and downs, joys and heartbreaks, but you don’t have to face it alone.
If you’re curious about empowering options that combine practical support with emotional respect, take a look at MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits. They’re changing the game for those seeking fertility answers in private, gentle ways.
What’s your story? How do you cope with the emotional whirlwinds of fertility struggles? Share your thoughts and join the conversation below. Sometimes, just knowing others understand can be the greatest comfort of all.