Imagine this: You’re navigating the winding, emotional maze of trying to conceive—waiting, hoping, sometimes celebrating small wins, other times grappling with doubt. Now, imagine an album dropping right into that exact space, as if it read your mind and gave you permission to feel everything without apology. Enter Lorde and her latest album, 'Virgin'. If you haven’t tuned in yet, you’re missing out on a surprisingly profound soundtrack for the fertility journey.

Yes, you read that right. The same New Zealand artist who made us dance and cry with hits like “Royals” has released a fourth studio album that, while not explicitly about fertility, resonates deeply with anyone walking the path to parenthood.

Why does this matter? Because fertility is more than biology—it’s about emotional resilience, self-acceptance, and embracing the mystery of our bodies. Lorde’s album doesn’t just drop beats; it invites listeners to lean into their internal enigmas, much like the journey many of us embark on when trying to conceive.

What Makes 'Virgin' So Relatable to Fertility?

Lorde’s new album, produced mainly by Jim-E Stack, features tracks like “What Was That,” “Hammer,” and “Man of the Year” that explore vulnerability, identity, and transformation. These aren’t your typical pop anthems. They feel raw and real—much like the emotions surrounding fertility struggles, infertility treatments, or even the choice to build your family differently.

• Raw Emotions: Much like trying to conceive, where hope and disappointment tango, Lorde’s lyrics capture that emotional push-and-pull.
• Embracing Vulnerability: Fertility journeys push us to face fears and uncertainties head-on. Lorde’s music encourages owning those feelings.
• Reclaiming Identity: Often, fertility issues can make us question who we are outside of ‘trying to conceive.’ This album feels like a call to rediscover and love yourself fully.

The Fertility Journey and Mental Health: A Silent Struggle

If you’re on this path, you already know how much fertility challenges can affect mental health. Anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation are common, yet rarely talked about openly. That’s why cultural touchstones like 'Virgin' are so valuable—they provide a mirror and a megaphone for those unspoken experiences.

At MakeAMom, we hear these stories every day. That’s why our mission isn’t just about providing at-home insemination kits like CryoBaby, Impregnator, or BabyMaker, but also about supporting the emotional side of fertility. We believe in empowering you with tools that fit your unique needs—whether you’re working with low motility sperm, tackling vaginismus, or simply seeking a more private and cost-effective path to conception.

The Power of Embracing Your Internal Enigma

What if the key to managing fertility stress lies in embracing all parts of ourselves—the strong, the uncertain, the hopeful, and the broken? Lorde calls this embracing your “internal enigma,” that complex, beautiful mess inside each of us.

• It’s okay to be confused about your feelings.
• It’s okay to cry and rage.
• It’s even okay to celebrate yourself each day, no matter what the test results say.

Your emotional wellbeing is as much a part of this journey as any medical intervention.

How Music and Mood Tie Into Fertility Success

Studies consistently highlight the link between stress reduction and improved fertility outcomes. While Lorde's 'Virgin' won’t replace medical advice or fertility treatments, it’s a reminder that nurturing your mind matters.

Whether you’re taking charge with at-home insemination or exploring other fertility options, pairing your journey with mindful practices—like listening to empowering music—can be a game-changer.

So, What’s Next?

If you’re in the thick of trying to conceive or supporting someone who is, maybe it’s time to hit play on 'Virgin' and let yourself feel all the feels. And when you’re ready to explore personalized, discreet, and reusable fertility tools, MakeAMom’s range of kits might just be what helps tip the odds in your favor.

Because fertility isn’t just a medical challenge; it’s a deeply personal story—one that deserves an anthem.

Have you ever found unexpected comfort or inspiration in music during your fertility journey? Drop your favorite songs or albums in the comments below. Let’s build a playlist that cheers us on every step of the way!

Originally inspired by Hypebeast’s feature on Lorde’s album ‘Virgin’ here.