The Surprising Horror Behind Pregnancy: What 'Birthrite' Taught Me About Parenthood Fears

Have you ever felt that uneasy twinge when you think about pregnancy? That shadow of fear that something might go wrong, or worse, that there’s something lurking beneath the surface of this joyful milestone?

I recently came across the trailer for an indie horror film called Birthrite, released by Brainstorm Media and directed by Ross Partridge. Its tagline—"I don't know what it wants with you, but it can't be good... They want the baby."—sent a shiver down my spine. You can watch the trailer here.

It’s not your typical pregnancy story. It isn’t filled with glowing ultrasounds or joyful first kicks. Instead, it dives into a darker, more primal fear—the fear of losing control over your own body and the life growing inside you.

Why does this resonate so much with so many trying to conceive or preparing for parenthood?

Well, pregnancy and conception, while miraculous, are also fraught with uncertainties, anxieties, and a host of emotional hurdles. Many of us keep these worries under wraps, especially when society pushes the narrative that pregnancy should only bring happiness and excitement. But the truth is far more complex.

Take for example the challenge of conceiving itself. For some, it’s a straightforward journey, but for others, there are hurdles like low sperm motility, sensitivities, or health conditions such as vaginismus, all of which can add layers of stress. This is where innovations like MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits can be a beacon of hope. They offer practical, discreet, and cost-effective solutions, tailored to specific needs—whether it's handling low motility sperm with the Impregnator kit or accommodating sensitivities with the BabyMaker kit. These options are empowering for people who want to navigate the path to parenthood on their own terms.

But beyond the practical, there’s the emotional rollercoaster. Birthrite’s horror imagery might be unsettling, but it captures a very real, often unspoken side of the fertility journey: the fear of loss, the anxiety of the unknown, and sometimes, the haunting feeling of karmic debt that some believe lingers in the background of pregnancy and birth.

If pregnancy sometimes feels like stepping into the unknown, what does that mean for our mental health? It means acknowledging those fears instead of burying them. Recognizing that it’s okay to feel vulnerable or scared even during what should be a joyous time.

Here are some thoughts to consider:

  • Pregnancy is not always sunshine and rainbows. It can bring unexpected emotions and fears, and that’s okay.
  • Mental health matters just as much as physical health. Don't hesitate to seek support, whether it's counseling, a support group, or leaning into the community.
  • Technology and innovation are changing the game. Tools like MakeAMom kits help take some stress out of conception by offering discreet, effective options suited to varied fertility needs.
  • Open conversations can break the stigma. Sharing your fears and experiences can be healing—for you and for others walking the same path.

So, Birthrite isn’t just a horror flick — it’s a reminder that the journey to parenthood is deeply personal, sometimes scary, but ultimately courageous. It invites us to confront our fears, acknowledge the shadows, and find light in unexpected places.

If you’re navigating your own fertility journey or preparing for pregnancy, what fears do you carry? How do you cope with the emotional highs and lows? Let’s start that conversation here.

And if you’re curious about making the process a bit more manageable, check out how discreet, reusable insemination kits like those from MakeAMom are helping people take control in their own homes.

Because in the end, the greatest strength is embracing every part of this journey—even the scary bits.

What do you think about the way pregnancy is portrayed in horror or media? Share your thoughts and experiences below—let’s support each other through it all.